I Have Wasted much of my youth life believing that, sexuality is taboo and sin. It is because, that’s what my parents and neighbors had taught me. They taught me, that it is a greatest sin to enjoy and embrace sexuality or romance. I was always condemned and looked down upon, whenever I tried to approach a girl, out of opposite attraction. I was taught that, I must never approach a woman while keeping attraction and sexuality in mind. This led me to always have doubt about, which of my emotions are right and which ones are wrong. I started doubting my own instincts and emotions, whenever emotions of sexuality and attraction arose within me, I felt as a sinner. This caused my self esteem and confidence to degrade and the insecurity within me piled up year after year in my youth life. I became filled with self doubt and extremely low confidence. In my twenties, I could never approach a woman confidently or have a meaningful relationship. Failure after failure, I gained some wisdom and started seeing this world more clearly.

I immensely fought with my own insecurities to come out of the low self esteem. I realized that, any of our natural emotions are normal and healthy, and it should never be labeled as evil or taboo. In Fact Religions Made Sexuality a Taboo for its own Selfish and Evil Purposes, such as to Rule People and Control the Society. While the Elites of the Society were taught about the Positions of Kamasutra (How to Enjoy Sex More), We the Mediocre people were Taught That, Sexuality is a SIN and TABOO and We Must Avoid it as Much as Possible. We the mediocre people were taught that, sex is just for procreation (for having children) and not for enjoyment, while the top rulers were having orgy sessions in their palaces.

Now, I realize, it was not my parents or neighbor’s fault, because they also got similar instructions from their parents and neighbor’s, when they were young, and their parents got from their parents so on and so forth.

To Survive and To Reproduce is the fundamental emotions of life. Just as food is necessary for physical wellbeing, sex and romance is necessary for mental wellbeing. Therefore I created this Blog to educate ourselves about sexuality and make this society a sexually open place. To connect like minded people and and have healthy discussion.

Lets enjoy and embrace, one of the most pleasurable gift that nature has provided to Humankind : SEXUALITY.